The Lady Tuxedo – Devel Men and Women

The Lady Tuxedo – Devel Men and Women

How to wear a lady tuxedo? Well, the answer is quite simple really, you just zip up your pants, slip on your jacket and you’re set!

The gorgeous Marlene Dietrich who starred in the classic film ‘Morocco’ (1930) was the first time I had ever seen a woman dressed in a tuxedo. There’s this particular scene where she walks into a nightclub, and she’s simply stunning in this fitted lady tuxedo. As she walks out onto the stage the audience is completely stunned and start yelling profanities at her. Marlene holds her gaze and puffs away on her cigarette almost enjoying the reaction from them. The audience slowly comes around to her, and begin clapping as she starts to sing in French.

Lady Tuxedo - Miss Charlotte Cake

The way she wears that lady tuxedo makes you fall in love with her. I remember the first time I was watching it, and needed to know more about who this woman was. She was wearing that tuxedo to turn on both women, and men and she appealed to everyone, as she should. Nobody has ever looked better in a tux in my opinion! She was always transgressive, and forward-thinking when it came to fashion. It’s one of the reasons I love her so much.

Other notable women who have tried out this androgynous style include; Princess Diana, Kate Moss, Dita Von Teese and Chloe Sevigny

Designer and friend Danielle Gardener from Devel Men and Women helped bring my vision to life. I was very specific about wanting tailored high-waisted pants, but still loose-fitting as well as a fitted, cropped jacket complete with tails. She absolutely nailed my outfit and I couldn’t be happier with the look.

Lady Tuxedo - Miss Charlotte Cake

Here are my tips for wearing a lady tuxedo:


Whether you’re going custom-made or altering an existing garment. Make sure it’s tailored to fit your proportions. Sleeve length on the jacket, waist height and cuff length on your pants are all very important for making sure your tuxedo sits and looks perfect. You want to look polished, and sophisticated – not drowning in fabric because the pants and jacket don’t fit you very well. I know I will need to get the pants taken in slightly soon as I’ve lost weight since I had them made.


This is the most fun. Accessory options are endless with this outfit because everything goes well with black. My favourite so far? Pairing a crisp white shirt/blouse along with sparkly diamonds and a top hat. The first time I wore my lady tuxedo was to a Halloween Ball and I had a long sleeve, white low-cut blouse which I paired with a top hat and diamonds. The second time, I chose a sleeveless white blouse with a bow tie, clear lucite accessories and no hat. There are so many options to change the overall look and I love it. I’m thinking I’ll go with red accessories next time.

The beauty of this lady tuxedo is that I can wear one piece without the other when I feel like it. If I want to jazz up and outfit, I can add the jacket. If I want to wear high-waisted black pants (amazing for office wear), then I’ll pair those with a cute top.


The cherry on top of the outfit. You’ll need an extra dose of confidence and allure when you rock your tuxedo. This is a bold statement we’re talking about. Especially if it comes complete with beautiful hair, makeup and accessories. Stand up tall, slant that top hat and smile baby.

Lady Tuxedo - Miss Charlotte Cake

Bringing femininity into a seemingly masculine outfit is everything to me and I always feel extremely feminine when I wear my tuxedo.

I wore my lady tuxedo to see Art of the Teese by Dita Von Teese recently in Melbourne – it was the perfect outfit to see such a glamourous show.

There you have it, my top tips for wearing a lady tux. Have you ever thought about giving this seemingly male staple a female makeover?

Note* In these particular photos I am wearing black cigarette pants from Vixen by Micheline Pitt. I have since lost some weight and my original lady tuxedo pants are going to be taken in.


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  1. July 18, 2018 / 1:13 am

    I absolutely love this look! I read an article about Marlene Dietrich not too long ago and I just fell in love with her and the tuxedo! You look so good in it xxx

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